Monday, 19 March 2012

Divorce-How to Survive!

Divorce has to be one of the most devastating events in anyone's life, whether or not you wanted the divorce in the first place, or were the totally innocent party involved. When I decided to divorce my wife, I knew it was going to be a hard, and long struggle, so to prepare myself for the coming battle, I looked around for a book that would, in simple terms, let me know what I was in for. Can you believe it, there was nothing available at all! So when the dust had settled from my own divorce, I sat down and wrote a book with the express purpose for assisting people who are in the situation I was in, getting divorced and knowing nothing about it. My book is called;


In this book, you will find all you will need to know about relationships, marriage and the inevitability of divorce, not that all marriages end in divorce, but it's not looking good! Do you realise that over 50% of all marriages end in divorce, or that 70% of second marriages hit the wall, or a staggering 90% of third marriages wind up on the rocks? Like I said, it's not looking good!

But why would people still get married when there is a better than 50% chance of it failing? Well, that's easy;

1) Companionship. If you are with the right person, you can handle anything life throws at you, that is priceless!
2) Love. The act of committing yourself to someone can be a very rewarding experience.
3) Children. A stable home for children is a must.
4) Financial Benifits.Shareing a home developes a sense of purpose that living together simply does not give you.

In my book, "Marriage and Divorce, a Survivor's Guide", I have outlined many aspects of relationships, marriages  and divorce that people come across. All relationships and divorces are different, but there are also many aspects that are exactly the same, and that's where my book comes in.
The book covers "Why Marry?", "When Things go Wrong", "Time For A Divorce?", "Is the Marriage worth Saving?", "How to Spot A Cheating Spouse" and many other elements that you probably won't even have thought of!

Remember, the point of my book is for you to be better equipt to survive the trauma of divorce, and to get through it as unscathed as possible. All this comes from my own bitter experience, and the book is almost a conversation with myself asking me why I had been so stupid in the first place to let my marriage get to the point it did!

I cannot tell you enough how important this book is, and how much it will assist you, it has recieved glowing reviews from many newspapers,  radio stations and magazines, so it really will help! Google SPIKE FARRELL and you will get a selection of the reviews.

The Book is available from Exclusive Books, Books and Books Durban North, Adams Musgrave, and Kloof News Agency. It is also available on AMAZON.COM and KINDLE, where you can sample the book yourself. If you would like to order the book directly from me, contact me on or call 083-7883950.

Remember the name....


Again, contact me on

or 083-7883950.

I wish you the very best of luck, and remember, if I can make it through a divorce, so can you!!!!